Once you're on a personals or dating site, regardless of your gender or your desires, being gay, bisexual, straight or somewhere in between those...you need to ensure that you are standing out amongst all the other profiles on there.
There are some key factors that you need to be sure your profile has, and below I try to list some of those:
Factor 1
Use a recent photograph. It is amazing and disappointing how many people place a photo on their profile which is out-of-date. Some by decades lol. But joking apart, it's not funny. Having actually dated a woman who did this, I politely declined when she opened her front door and was a wrinkly. She learnt a lesson that day and I made sure her friends were aware of this as well... And if you have a camera that puts a date on the photo, make sure you keep it current. So many people forget to update their photo, and if you're having success your looks will change. Maybe a new hairstyle or colour, or you lose weight. It pays to keep yourself looking fresh, and that brings me to number 2...
Factor 2
Don't lie. You will be found out. Either if you don't have a photo and then send one privately, or you claim to be athletic and you're a couch potato. If you're overweight, say so. You'll be surprised how honesty can win you friends. If everyone were perfect there would be no need for dating sites or online personals. We'd all be living in heavenly bliss and there would be no troubles in the world. But we don't. So telling untruths on your profile is a no no. Oh and if you have a disability, it will save so much upset and aggravation if you simply say so. It's not a negative. It's something that makes you unique and should be appreciated if someone likes you as a person.
Factor 3
Be honest with your status. If you're married, say so. If you're separated then you're still married, just living apart. You may think you're single, but you're still restricted on what you can and can't do.
Factor 4
Be honest with what you want. There's a theme here, honesty pays... If you're looking for nothing but sex, then it's better to say so. Some men/women aren't. They join sites looking for friends only, to be social, not to have as many partners as they can and discover their inner selves. If you like it kinky, then suggest that. If you don't like anal sex, then again, make it clear. But if you're open to anything, then state it plainly.
Factor 5
Try to be interesting. Sit down with a sheet of paper and write down the things you think are interesting about you. Perhaps you decorate cakes, or even like decorating the house. Maybe you play a musical instrument, or like Tai Chi or just like staying in to watch the soaps on TV. If you get really stuck for ideas, then ask a close friend. Not your mates in the local bar who will rip the piss out of you. Ask your best friend. Other people will give you an honest opinion and if they don't or are insincere, then you know to avoid them.
And once you know all about yourself and your needs and desires, you need to register on a site...
The best by far is Flirt-Site
Friday 27 September 2013
Tuesday 24 September 2013
Christian Dating Sites
Interesting how some people are shy in real life and wild typists when allowed to set their alter ego free.... Are you one of those, or do you lead a more reserved life ? If you are looking for a pleasant group of friends or perhaps that special someone, you still have to start somewhere. The best way is to meet people who share a common interest or belief. In this case, being a member of the same faith is an ideal way to narrow down your search. That doesn't mean though that you should limit your contacts to only those people. The reason I believe is that we live in a multi-denominational and multi-cultural world. Bigotry and prejudice have no place in this modern world and are a slippery slope to hatred. Love thy neighbour is what the Bible says, and that should not preclude you from having friends from all backgrounds. Whether you chose to marry one of those people is another matter of course.
Well, you're looking for some friendly chat, maybe some naughty or risque chat ? You need to use one of the many sites designed for this purpose, one that has a huge number of possible people to exchange a "Hello!" with, or maybe something a little more provocative ? The choice is yours.
Regardless, as with all flirting and personals sites, be careful, if you want to meet, make sure that first meeting is somewhere public and people know where you're going...Better to be safe than never heard of again.
What style of flirt are you ? The best approach is to be selective. There's a strong chance that people will know each other and form their own circle of friends on the site. When they do, you'll rapidly be found out if you blanket contact everyone in a 50 mile radius of your location. Sure, there may be lots of attractive people to contact, but don't sit there hour after hour contacting everyone in sight. Be a little more picky, choose those who you think sound interesting, and tell them so. It might be something in their photograph, something they are wearing, the colour of their hair, or just the place they are when the photograph was taken. Above all else, be complimentary and never ever be rude. Life is too short, and you'll rapidly lose friends and the ability to make them if you are rude and/or abusive when chatting to people. Similarly, if someone approaches you who is clearly 'not your type', be polite and courteous. Don't ignore them else they may get abusive as well. Simply write back and say no thanks. Remember it's all personal choice. Some people will just click and off you go, chatting and exchanging messages and losing track of time. Others will be a bit of challenge. Finding something to say that is sincere and yet not cheesy often works the best. If someone tells you that they are a polar-opposite to what you're looking for, don't instantly discount them. Maybe you'd like to question their reasons for taking that opinion. Maybe they have noticed something that you haven't. And if they are someone that you really like, will you forgive them just once ? The only way to find out is to get in their and flirt away !!
This site is global, so be sure to set your filter appropriately, but by being global you have more options open to you. Going on holiday? Contact a few locals and see if they'll show you around. Maybe you'd like to party the night away but don't know where to start ? Go check out the people who live there, see what they recommend and then invite them along. Instant party, and people you know and trust...
And so, which site should you use for this new found freedom ?
I recommend you review this one: Flirt-Site and if you like it, sign up today. There are membership packages to suit all tastes.
Flirt Dating
Interesting how some people are shy in real life and demon typists when allowed to set their alter ego free.... Are you one of those, or do you lead a more reserved life ?
Well, you're looking for some friendly chat, maybe some naughty or risque chat ? You need to use one of the many sites designed for this purpose, one that has a huge number of possible people to exchange a "Hello!" with, or maybe something a little more provocative ? The choice is yours.
Regardless, as with all flirting and personals sites, be careful, if you want to meet, make sure that first meeting is somewhere public and people know where you're going...Better to be safe than never heard of again.
This site is global, so be sure to set your filter appropriately, but by being global you have more options open to you. Going on holiday? Contact a few locals and see if they'll show you around. Maybe you'd like to party the night away but don't know where to start ? Go check out the people who live there, see what they recommend and then invite them along. Instant party, and people you know and trust...
What style of flirt are you ? The best approach is to be selective. There's a strong chance that people will know each other and form their own circle of friends on the site. When they do, you'll rapidly be found out if you blanket contact everyone in a 50 mile radius of your location. Sure, there may be lots of attractive people to contact, but don't sit there hour after hour contacting everyone in sight. Be a little more picky, choose those who you think sound interesting, and tell them so. It might be something in their photograph, something they are wearing, the colour of their hair, or just the place they are when the photograph was taken. Above all else, be complimentary and never ever be rude. Life is too short, and you'll rapidly lose friends and the ability to make them if you are rude and/or abusive when chatting to people. Similarly, if someone approaches you who is clearly 'not your type', be polite and courteous. Don't ignore them else they may get abusive as well. Simply write back and say no thanks. Remember it's all personal choice. Some people will just click and off you go, chatting and exchanging messages and losing track of time. Others will be a bit of challenge. Finding something to say that is sincere and yet not cheesy often works the best. If someone tells you that they are a polar-opposite to what you're looking for, don't instantly discount them. Maybe you'd like to question their reasons for taking that opinion. Maybe they have noticed something that you haven't. And if they are someone that you really like, will you forgive them just once ? The only way to find out is to get in their and flirt away !!
And so, which site should you use for this new found freedom ?
I recommend you review this one: Flirt-Site and if you like it, sign up today. There are membership packages to suit all tastes.
Saturday 21 September 2013
Flirt-sites
Well, you're looking for some friendly chat, maybe some naughty or risque chat ? You need to use one of the many sites designed for this purpose, one that has a huge number of possible people to exchange a "Hello!" with, or maybe something a little more provocative ? The choice is yours.
Interesting how some people are shy in real life and demon typists when allowed to set their alter ego free.... Are you one of those, or do you lead a more reserved life ?
Regardless, as with all flirting and personals sites, be careful, if you want to meet, make sure that first meeting is somewhere public and people know where you're going...Better to be safe than never heard of again.
And so, which site should you use for this new found freedom ?
I recommend you look at this one: Flirt-Site
This site is global, so be sure to set your filter appropriately, but by being global you have more options open to you. Going on holiday? Contact a few locals and see if they'll show you around. Maybe you'd like to party the night away but don't know where to start ? Go check out the people who live there, see what they recommend and then invite them along. Instant party, and people you know and trust...
What style of flirt are you ? The best approach is to be selective. There's a strong chance that people will know each other and form their own circle of friends on the site. When they do, you'll rapidly be found out if you blanket contact everyone in a 50 mile radius of your location. Sure, there may be lots of attractive people to contact, but don't sit there hour after hour contacting everyone in sight. Be a little more picky, choose those who you think sound interesting, and tell them so. It might be something in their photograph, something they are wearing, the colour of their hair, or just the place they are when the photograph was taken. Above all else, be complimentary and never ever be rude. Life is too short, and you'll rapidly lose friends and the ability to make them if you are rude and/or abusive when chatting to people. Similarly, if someone approaches you who is clearly 'not your type', be polite and courteous. Don't ignore them else they may get abusive as well. Simply write back and say no thanks. Remember it's all personal choice. Some people will just click and off you go, chatting and exchanging messages and losing track of time. Others will be a bit of challenge. Finding something to say that is sincere and yet not cheesy often works the best. If someone tells you that they are a polar-opposite to what you're looking for, don't instantly discount them. Maybe you'd like to question their reasons for taking that opinion. Maybe they have noticed something that you haven't. And if they are someone that you really like, will you forgive them just once ? The only way to find out is to get in their and flirt away !!
Or... just sign up below:
Interesting how some people are shy in real life and demon typists when allowed to set their alter ego free.... Are you one of those, or do you lead a more reserved life ?
Regardless, as with all flirting and personals sites, be careful, if you want to meet, make sure that first meeting is somewhere public and people know where you're going...Better to be safe than never heard of again.
And so, which site should you use for this new found freedom ?
I recommend you look at this one: Flirt-Site
This site is global, so be sure to set your filter appropriately, but by being global you have more options open to you. Going on holiday? Contact a few locals and see if they'll show you around. Maybe you'd like to party the night away but don't know where to start ? Go check out the people who live there, see what they recommend and then invite them along. Instant party, and people you know and trust...
What style of flirt are you ? The best approach is to be selective. There's a strong chance that people will know each other and form their own circle of friends on the site. When they do, you'll rapidly be found out if you blanket contact everyone in a 50 mile radius of your location. Sure, there may be lots of attractive people to contact, but don't sit there hour after hour contacting everyone in sight. Be a little more picky, choose those who you think sound interesting, and tell them so. It might be something in their photograph, something they are wearing, the colour of their hair, or just the place they are when the photograph was taken. Above all else, be complimentary and never ever be rude. Life is too short, and you'll rapidly lose friends and the ability to make them if you are rude and/or abusive when chatting to people. Similarly, if someone approaches you who is clearly 'not your type', be polite and courteous. Don't ignore them else they may get abusive as well. Simply write back and say no thanks. Remember it's all personal choice. Some people will just click and off you go, chatting and exchanging messages and losing track of time. Others will be a bit of challenge. Finding something to say that is sincere and yet not cheesy often works the best. If someone tells you that they are a polar-opposite to what you're looking for, don't instantly discount them. Maybe you'd like to question their reasons for taking that opinion. Maybe they have noticed something that you haven't. And if they are someone that you really like, will you forgive them just once ? The only way to find out is to get in their and flirt away !!
Or... just sign up below:
Flirt-site
Well, you're looking for some friendly chat, maybe some naughty or risque chat ? You need to use one of the many sites designed for this purpose, one that has a huge number of possible people to exchange a "Hello!" with, or maybe something a little more provocative ? The choice is yours.
Interesting how some people are shy in real life and demon typists when allowed to set their alter ego free.... Are you one of those, or do you lead a more reserved life ?
Regardless, as with all flirting and personals sites, be careful, if you want to meet, make sure that first meeting is somewhere public and people know where you're going...Better to be safe than never heard of again.
This site is global, so be sure to set your filter appropriately, but by being global you have more options open to you. Going on holiday? Contact a few locals and see if they'll show you around. Maybe you'd like to party the night away but don't know where to start ? Go check out the people who live there, see what they recommend and then invite them along. Instant party, and people you know and trust...
What style of flirt are you ? The best approach is to be selective. There's a strong chance that people will know each other and form their own circle of friends on the site. When they do, you'll rapidly be found out if you blanket contact everyone in a 50 mile radius of your location. Sure, there may be lots of attractive people to contact, but don't sit there hour after hour contacting everyone in sight. Be a little more picky, choose those who you think sound interesting, and tell them so. It might be something in their photograph, something they are wearing, the colour of their hair, or just the place they are when the photograph was taken. Above all else, be complimentary and never ever be rude. Life is too short, and you'll rapidly lose friends and the ability to make them if you are rude and/or abusive when chatting to people. Similarly, if someone approaches you who is clearly 'not your type', be polite and courteous. Don't ignore them else they may get abusive as well. Simply write back and say no thanks. Remember it's all personal choice. Some people will just click and off you go, chatting and exchanging messages and losing track of time. Others will be a bit of challenge. Finding something to say that is sincere and yet not cheesy often works the best. If someone tells you that they are a polar-opposite to what you're looking for, don't instantly discount them. Maybe you'd like to question their reasons for taking that opinion. Maybe they have noticed something that you haven't. And if they are someone that you really like, will you forgive them just once ? The only way to find out is to get in there and flirt away !!
And so, which site should you use for this new found freedom ?
I recommend you look at this one: Flirt-Site
Or... just sign up below:
Interesting how some people are shy in real life and demon typists when allowed to set their alter ego free.... Are you one of those, or do you lead a more reserved life ?
Regardless, as with all flirting and personals sites, be careful, if you want to meet, make sure that first meeting is somewhere public and people know where you're going...Better to be safe than never heard of again.
This site is global, so be sure to set your filter appropriately, but by being global you have more options open to you. Going on holiday? Contact a few locals and see if they'll show you around. Maybe you'd like to party the night away but don't know where to start ? Go check out the people who live there, see what they recommend and then invite them along. Instant party, and people you know and trust...
What style of flirt are you ? The best approach is to be selective. There's a strong chance that people will know each other and form their own circle of friends on the site. When they do, you'll rapidly be found out if you blanket contact everyone in a 50 mile radius of your location. Sure, there may be lots of attractive people to contact, but don't sit there hour after hour contacting everyone in sight. Be a little more picky, choose those who you think sound interesting, and tell them so. It might be something in their photograph, something they are wearing, the colour of their hair, or just the place they are when the photograph was taken. Above all else, be complimentary and never ever be rude. Life is too short, and you'll rapidly lose friends and the ability to make them if you are rude and/or abusive when chatting to people. Similarly, if someone approaches you who is clearly 'not your type', be polite and courteous. Don't ignore them else they may get abusive as well. Simply write back and say no thanks. Remember it's all personal choice. Some people will just click and off you go, chatting and exchanging messages and losing track of time. Others will be a bit of challenge. Finding something to say that is sincere and yet not cheesy often works the best. If someone tells you that they are a polar-opposite to what you're looking for, don't instantly discount them. Maybe you'd like to question their reasons for taking that opinion. Maybe they have noticed something that you haven't. And if they are someone that you really like, will you forgive them just once ? The only way to find out is to get in there and flirt away !!
And so, which site should you use for this new found freedom ?
I recommend you look at this one: Flirt-Site
Or... just sign up below:
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